Without going on hundreds of dates. Without changing who you are. And without giving more of yourself to a man who still won't commit.
Most women have been getting dating advice from other women their entire life, and that is exactly why they keep getting it wrong. Chengi has built her entire body of work on understanding men: the psychology, the wiring, the language, the triggers, and what they'll tell another man but never tell you.
The psychology, neuroscience and inner work that takes you from the woman he keeps around to the woman he is terrified of losing. This is the work no other coach is talking about, and it is the reason our women get engaged, not strung along.
The exact scripts, frame and behaviour that gets a marriage-minded man to lock you in within months instead of years. What to say when he pulls away, how to handle the talking stage, when to disappear, and why begging, chasing and convincing kill commitment every single time.
Chengi is the founder of the Black Swan Relationship Academy. She did not learn this from a textbook. She lived it.
Married at 19. Divorced in her 30s. A single mother left questioning her worth after years of giving everything to the wrong men.
She did everything she thought a good woman was supposed to do, and still ended up broken, alone, and starting over. That season forced her to face a truth most coaches will never tell you. The problem was never her effort. The problem was her identity.
She devoted herself to studying the psychology, neuroscience and spiritual principles that govern attraction and connection. She rewired who she was at the root. And when she did, the kind of love she had been giving everything for her entire life started showing up for her instead.
Today she teaches women all over the world the science, skill and art of love, not from theory, but from lived transformation. From situationships to engagement. From heartbreak to husband. From two divorces to a forever partner.
She is not going to soothe you on Saturday. She is going to show you exactly why he is not choosing you, and exactly how to fix it.
From no confidence and confused to marriage in 6 months.
From endless situationships and constant heartbreak to finding the love of her life in 4 months.
At 50, two divorces later. Met and married her husband within 12 months.
Childhood trauma wounds had been stopping her from getting married. Now happily married.
From a painful relationship, to love and engaged in 16 months.
From confused and broken, to love and engagement.
From heartbroken, to love and marriage in 16 months.
""On average it takes 200 dates to find a committed partner. With Chengi's Personal Coaching, it takes 10."
When you register for the live training, you also get Secrets Of A Man's Mind, a 1 hour 30 minute unlisted video where Chengi breaks down exactly how a man thinks, what makes him stay, and what quietly makes him leave.
"The biggest one for me was the fact that it is all a game. That you can't teach the sun to not shine. So all the stages men go through when they are trying to snag you. Future faking, all of it. I'm glad I know this now."
"I'm in a really good place now, and just to be able to look back and see the progression. It's simply amazing. You are a God send. Worth every penny. I would recommend to all."
"I learnt sooo much about where I'd gone wrong over the years. I'd literally been giving, giving, giving and not setting boundaries, giving him wife benefits without a contract."
"I am so glad I was able to attend Chengi's Mastering Attraction Masterclass. It was a great investment. Thank you for helping me become a better woman."
"Happy New Year Chengi! If it wasn't for you, I would either be divorced, widowed or in jail."
"Our last session was so eye opening. Every time we meet I feel like we're chipping off old mindsets so I can walk in the newness of who God created me to be. Truly you are an angel."
The seat is free. The decision is yours.
Limited seats · Saturday 20th June
